Ikram

Ikram is sleeping at the moment. I used a car seat as his bed. I bring him to my office today because he is not feeling well. He has have cold since last week. I always put him at the nusery when I go to work. But sometimes if I see his sleepy face, I felt very pity to let him to nusery. As u know, toddlers are very active. They like exploring and eating anything that they see and touch. At the nusery, some of his friends are quite "fierce". They enjoy pulling, bitting and shouting to each other and even to their babysitter. One day, a babysitter was almost cried when a chubby toddler bite her.They find those things very amusing. However, after I have sent my son there, his character has changed. He can easily hug other pepole and ask them to take him. He enjoy playing with other toddler and seem very happy. But to make him to be like that, a toddler who has confidence to do something on his own, you must make a very strong bond with him. When this bond is created tightly, he will feel more secure and he will always know that there is someone behind him, protect him with love and care. I used to be a fulltime housewife before this. When he was almost reach one year, I started to work. I do like this to make sure that he really get all my attention and love. You can see the difference between a toddler who his mother is a fulltime housewife and a toodler who his mother is a busy career woman. But if u can't be a fulltime housewife, make sure that u give enough love and support to him. For instance, although I'm a career woman at the moment, I always go to the nusery during lunch time to feed him, play with him and hug him. I don't want he waits for a long period to see me.