Monday, December 19, 2005

A city I have visited

There a lot of advatages of living in a big city. First of all, all the services u need are situated there. U can go to Bank, Museum, the hospital which is the centre for medical expertise, insuranse and many more. The biggest shoopinng mall is also situated there where u can find almost everything there. However, u can never deny negative aspect of crowded cities. Teenagers tends to loaf because lack of comfortable house in the city. An average family could only afford to rent a small flat. This situation make many teenagers go outside their house and be with their friends. The bad things happened when they tried to do something challenging like illegal motor race and going to pub. In big city, u can see some beautiful building

Ikram's mother


my name is "ikram' s mother". I live at tmn rama-rama. I live with my husdband, my son and my brother. I am studyinng english because i have to take IELTS test soon. I like my studies because it make me more confidence to meet other people. Because at the moment u can see a lot of information from internet and tv are in english. By learning this language, I can grab those info and make myself a knowlegable woman. I use english everyday since 3 months ago because I desperately have to pass the test. A city that i have visited is JB. It is situated south of penisular malaysia and near to singapore.It is the capital city of Johor. I visited JB because it is the place where i delevered my baby. Hospital Sultanah Aminah is the name of the hospital that carried a sweet memory for me. It is situated side of the city and infront laut cina selatan. U can see Singapore from there. From the high floor at the hospital, I hug my baby who was getting cold by wind from laut cina selatan. It was a memorable moment because i hadn't sleep all night because my baby didnt want to sleep. My baby name is Muhammad Ikram. I love u.

Ikram


Ikram is sleeping at the moment. I used a car seat as his bed. I bring him to my office today because he is not feeling well. He has have cold since last week. I always put him at the nusery when I go to work. But sometimes if I see his sleepy face, I felt very pity to let him to nusery. As u know, toddlers are very active. They like exploring and eating anything that they see and touch. At the nusery, some of his friends are quite "fierce". They enjoy pulling, bitting and shouting to each other and even to their babysitter. One day, a babysitter was almost cried when a chubby toddler bite her.They find those things very amusing. However, after I have sent my son there, his character has changed. He can easily hug other pepole and ask them to take him. He enjoy playing with other toddler and seem very happy. But to make him to be like that, a toddler who has confidence to do something on his own, you must make a very strong bond with him. When this bond is created tightly, he will feel more secure and he will always know that there is someone behind him, protect him with love and care. I used to be a fulltime housewife before this. When he was almost reach one year, I started to work. I do like this to make sure that he really get all my attention and love. You can see the difference between a toddler who his mother is a fulltime housewife and a toodler who his mother is a busy career woman. But if u can't be a fulltime housewife, make sure that u give enough love and support to him. For instance, although I'm a career woman at the moment, I always go to the nusery during lunch time to feed him, play with him and hug him. I don't want he waits for a long period to see me.